Since Mr. PF and I have been engaged for almost two years, you can bet your bottom dollar that I have heard a lot of wedding talk. Needless to say, nothing surprises me anymore so I decided to put together silly list that I'm sure we can all relate to.
1. I'm invited to the wedding, right? or even better... I'm gonna be a bridesmaid, right?
I have heard both of these and they both took me by surprise. I was left with a deer in the headlight stare and somehow stumbled my way out of it. I totally understand that people are excited for you and they want to be there to share your day, but it puts the bride in a really awkward position, especially if you aren't close friends.
2. Your ring is so cute!
OK, your bunny is cute, your new cardigan is cute, Hello Kitty is cute, but my ring is not cute. We can't all have 2 carat sparklers on our fingers, but I like my ring very much, thank you :)
3. Anything about why she shouldn't get married
I never really understood this. A bride is planning one of the most exciting days of her life and in the midst of best wishes and congratulations you hear a voice shouting "Don't do it!" Most of the time it comes from men thinking that they are being funny, but it get old real fast.
4. I know you have a small venue, but would it be OK if I brought my friend?
Bonus points if you have never met said friend before.
And last, but not least...
5. Do you have a baby in your belly?
Oh yes, my friends, I heard this special nugget today from one of my first graders. She did follow it up by saying that it's probably a really cute baby, but never the less, I was horrified. I don't think I really need to explain why this is something you shouldn't say... haha.
What crazy things have you heard while wedding planning?
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Sunday, September 25, 2011
Our No Look, First Look.
After our photographer suggested that we take pictures before the ceremony to save time, Mr. PF had to be talked into the idea. He is somewhat traditional and expressed that he didn't want to see me before the ceremony. He wanted that element of surprise when he saw me walking down the aisle, which I totally get.
I actually agreed with him, but I knew it would be more logistical to take pictures before the ceremony. It would leave us more time to enjoy our cocktail hour and more time with our friends and family. So, I started doing some research on first look pictures in attempts to persuade Mr. PF into the idea.
Image via Becky Young Photography
Image via Becky Young Photography
Image via Gina Leigh Photography
Image via Gina Leigh Photography
I actually agreed with him, but I knew it would be more logistical to take pictures before the ceremony. It would leave us more time to enjoy our cocktail hour and more time with our friends and family. So, I started doing some research on first look pictures in attempts to persuade Mr. PF into the idea.
I love this shot! I can totally imagine myself sneaking up on Mr. PF.
Another reason the first look appeals to me is because the bride and groom get to spend a few private moments together before the chaos of the day begins. He still wasn't convinced, though. (Aren't the guys just supposed to go with the flow?)
Then, I stumbled upon these beauties.
Then, I stumbled upon these beauties.
Image via Becky Young Photography
Image via Becky Young Photography
Image via Gina Leigh Photography
Image via Gina Leigh PhotographyI can actually feel the emotion and excitement oozing from these pictures! This is the perfect compromise for us. We get to have some special pictures of us sorta together, yet we still get to keep the element of surprise for the Mr. during the ceremony.
We are also going to get the wedding party pictures taken before the ceremony to get that out of the way.
Did you, or are you planning on having a first look? How did your FI feel about it?
We are also going to get the wedding party pictures taken before the ceremony to get that out of the way.
Did you, or are you planning on having a first look? How did your FI feel about it?
Saturday, September 24, 2011
Texas Hill Country Bee Meet-up!
Get ready, yall! It's the first-ever Texas Hill Country Bee Meet-up!
Who: Come one, come all! Whether you are still waiting, in the midst of planning or have a bun in the oven, we wanna see you!
What: A meet up to get to know other Texas Bees! Lets chat about our wedding plans and make some new friends.
When: Saturday, October 22, at 12 pm
Where: Gruene, TX in the middle of Austin and San Antonio at Gruene River Grill.
Why: Because it's gonna be super-fun!
Head on over to the local boards here and RSVP!Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Trying to tame my inner child.
I have had a few people already ask me where I'm registered or if we have registered yet. With the wedding about 5 months away, showers, engagement parties and other fun stuff is right around the corner. I actually registered for some gifts online at Bed, Bath and Beyond, but there was something holding me back.
The place we are getting married is a beautiful, tropical island with endless turquoise waters and bottomless margaritas. It is also home to many people who live way below anything we would consider close to the poverty line. This past summer when we visited the island, I found an amazing organization called Peace Isla Mujeres. They do amazing things for schools, shelters and even animals on the island.
Mr. PF and I already live together and we have accumulated quite a bit of things in those couple of years. We have everything we could possibly need to (air quote) start our lives together.
I can't help but think of all these amazing people we met this summer and how positive they are, even though they have nothing. I also can't help but think of how much they need the money for medical supplies or books for their school. They need it more than we need a new toaster or another blender.
I know it's going to be so hard to tame my inner child when it comes to receiving gifts. I can unwrap a present with the best of them, but this is my chance to make a difference in the lives of the people who inhabit this amazing island that we fell in love with.
I have already gotten some strange looks from my more traditional family members who insist on buying us fine china, but I think most people will be on board for our plan.
Did any of y'all go a different route on the registry front? How did you family react? Did you end up getting gifts anyways?
The place we are getting married is a beautiful, tropical island with endless turquoise waters and bottomless margaritas. It is also home to many people who live way below anything we would consider close to the poverty line. This past summer when we visited the island, I found an amazing organization called Peace Isla Mujeres. They do amazing things for schools, shelters and even animals on the island.
Mr. PF and I already live together and we have accumulated quite a bit of things in those couple of years. We have everything we could possibly need to (air quote) start our lives together.
I can't help but think of all these amazing people we met this summer and how positive they are, even though they have nothing. I also can't help but think of how much they need the money for medical supplies or books for their school. They need it more than we need a new toaster or another blender.
I know it's going to be so hard to tame my inner child when it comes to receiving gifts. I can unwrap a present with the best of them, but this is my chance to make a difference in the lives of the people who inhabit this amazing island that we fell in love with.
I have already gotten some strange looks from my more traditional family members who insist on buying us fine china, but I think most people will be on board for our plan.
Did any of y'all go a different route on the registry front? How did you family react? Did you end up getting gifts anyways?
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Our Gluten-free wedding!
About five years ago Mr. PF was diagnosed with Celiac disease. For those who aren't familiar with what that is, he is basically allergic to wheat, flour, barley and rye. Have you ever looked at the ingredients in products your eating? Gluten is in like, everything, y'all!
Image via NaturalBuy
Image via NaturalBuyAfter struggling with it for about a year, he is completely gluten-free and he is much happier and healthier. So, what does all this mean when you're planning a wedding? Well, we aren't going to have a cake since he can't eat it anyways. That means no cake face smash pictures that I love so much like Mrs. Prarie Dog. :(
Also, we had to be very careful what we had on our menu. Luckily our venue was very willing to work with us and everything on on menu will be gluten-free! Some of Mr. PF's family members also have Celiac disease, so they will be able to eat the food without any worries.
The only thing that will not be gluten-free is our bar. There is gluten is beer and so we decided that as long as we have other stuff for Mr. PF to drink, we can keep the beer for all our barley loving guests.
All in all, there were some things we had to avoid like bread and an amazing wedding cake, but at least Mr. PF will be able to eat freely at our wedding.
What are some obstacles you had to overcome while planning your wedding? Do any of y'all have a gluten intolerance?
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